Best friend or foe - Dealing with Dominating Peoples

When our friend gets too dominating we start complaining that the person is insensitive, aggressive, impatient and aroogant. instead lets try to deal with them. It can happened all the time. That pal you always depends on might just start teling you how to brush your teeth the next morning or what time to get to work. It is called domineering behaviors, so how to deal with such friends?

What many sees as arrogance as confidence over extended. If a dominant person is being arrogant we don't need to teach him/her a lesson. Typically, we avoid confrontation, avoid saying how we really feel, and often tell them what we think they want to hear. We start complaining that the person is insensitive, aggressive, impatient, and arrogant. Instead lets try deal with them.

How to deal with the Domineering people:

1. First of all find out whether the person has problem with you are not.
2. Confronting is the best thing to do when the person has the problem with you.
3. Lastly you must realize that if he/she just refuses to clear up the matter chances for relationship working are quit slim.

Deal with them:

Dealing with dominant people can be very difficult, but its not so much about manging them as it is about managing your own tendencies. The tendency of most of the people is to avoid dominant people and then complain to others. If we had to just ignore things surely they'd just worsen with time

Understand them:

An understanding of how dominant people function will help you gain influence and make it easier to connect with people in both personal and professional situations. All you need to do is act very smartly. A great sense of understanding matters if you have that, the dominating factor won't come into picture at all.

Intimidate them:

The idea is to calmly and firmly speak while making direct eye connect. if he/she react with intimidation you have to stand your ground. You don't need to yell or get upset. Calmly and firmly speak your mind.

Speak to them:

Presenting yourself as a victim often backfires. Most dominant people have little patient with victim hood. Instead of focus on how he has hurt your feelings you would gain more by clearly speaking your expectations. And surely that will make things better between both of you.