5 lies that Men often Tell in Relationship

Most people agree that some lying is even necessary to avoid petty squabbles and to grease the wheels of a relationship. But in relationships, most men lies. At the heart of many men's lies, however, is the male ego. Men lie to build themselves up or to conceal something. Men are more likely to lie to enhance themselves than women are. A new survey shows that every day the average male in a relationship tells a whole bunch of lies. The good news is that women have absolutely no idea if it’s a lie. Like it or not, relationship lies are used by men everywhere. Despite the fact 75 per cent of the women we asked said their partner would never use lies, a sobering 85 per cent of the men surveyed admitted to having told them in past relationships.


Here are the 5 lies that men oftel to womenin relationship:

1. I'd never lie to you: He will tell you whatever is necessary to avoid tears or conflict. If you challenge the lie, he'll say it was necessary because you can't handle the truth. Any woman who reads out the above to a man will be greeted with the response: "No! That's not true of me. The authors have got it wrong!" No, we haven't; we've done our research and one of us is a man. We know most men will acknowledge the truth about these lies to other men - or tell jokes to each other about them. But when it comes to women, they will say whatever necessary to keep you happy.
2. Honey, you're the best: One of the most lied-about subjects has to be sex. Perhaps that's because it's the area where we are most vulnerable. Here again men are likely to lie.
3. I'd never cheat on you: If Angelina Jolie threw herself naked at his feet, he would definitely consider his options. It doesn't mean he would do it, it means he'd consider it - and research shows around half would do it. Denial from a man when asked this question by his wife is a safe option because such opportunities rarely happen.
4. I've never thought about your friends: No, especially not the one with the sporty body and big boobs. Believe us, he's always thinking about it, even about the ugly ones. It doesn't mean he'll do it; it means he thinks about it, whether you like it or not.
5. I'm not into that sort of thing: Men use this lie in response to a woman's repulsion to a kinky sex act she's seen on TV, to her interrogation into what he likes in bed or whether he'd buy porn or go to a strip club. The reality is he is into that sort of thing or he'd love to try it.

Internationally renowned relationship experts Allan and Barbara reveal these surprising and sometimes shocking truths about men in his book " Why Men Want Sex And Women Want Love", published by Pease International and available now at bookstores.